How to Start a Halfway House

How to Start a Halfway House

 

What is a Halfway House?

Halfway Houses are transitional living places for those in recovery from drugs or alcohol. They are also called sober houses. Some people go to halfway houses from a treatment center, prison, or a homeless situation, while others go there to be in a sober and clean environment to begin the recovery process. Some residents are in halfway houses due to court orders.

Aspects of a Halfway House

Many halfway houses are run by people who themselves were at one time a halfway house resident. The houses accommodate either men or women. Most halfway houses require residents to pass breathalyzer and drug screening tests. Some houses have curfews.

Make sure the house is located so that your residents can easily get to AA and NA meetings. In recovery, we are self-supporting. Be certain that you are clear on what is expected from you and what you expect from your residents. Assign cleaning chores, including making their beds and keeping their rooms tidy.

Choose a house near public transportation for those of your residents who do not have their own transportation.

Why You Should Start a Halfway House

You should only open a halfway house if you are passionate about the cause. And, if you are passionate, it can be done with little or no money. There are various grants and loans available to get a house started. Learn from experience and check with someone who already has a house to see how to open one.

How to Start a Halfway House

Step 1: Acquire the licenses and permits needed to operate a halfway house in the community you select.

Step 2: Purchase or lease a property. Your financial circumstances may dictate this choice, but county, city, township and other lawmaking agencies frequently require property ownership before they are willing to sanction a halfway house in a residential neighborhood. Once you find one or more likely properties, have your top choices inspected by a certified building inspector to avoid “buyer’s remorse.”

Step 3: Renovate the property. Unless the home you buy was operated as a halfway house in the past, you’ll likely have to modify it to accommodate zoning laws that sanction the number of people you can house there, or any personal limits you’ve placed on resident capacity. Purchase insurance to cover the house and its contents, and add liability coverage to protect your personal assets from lawsuits. A regular homeowner’s policy isn’t adequate for a group home.

Step 4: Hire staff and create policies, rules and regulations. Having staff in place before the first resident arrives is a huge advantage, because experienced halfway house employees can help you write an operations manual and set rules, regulations and policies that will guide both clients and staff. Make sure you run background checks on everyone, from counselors to housekeeping employees.

Step 5: Set up the accounting aspects of your halfway house so it operates smoothly well into the future. Accurate records are important if you want your sponsors to continue making financial contributions, and it goes without saying that finding additional sponsors will be an ongoing activity.

Step 6: Implement programming. Residents released from rehab programs require an inordinate amount of structure in their lives so they can learn to become responsible members of both the halfway house and the outside world. Establish tight schedules that include mandated housekeeping chores, group counseling sessions, one-on-one therapy time, recreational activities, job searching and life skill building time. Plan social events, meetings and include alone time.

Remember: It is unlawful to discriminate in housing. The Supreme Court has ruled that recovering alcoholics and drug addicts are a protected class under the handicapped provisions of the Federal Fair Housing Act Amendments of 1988. If you seek a house in a good neighborhood, you’ll find it.

 

 

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http://halfwayhouse.com

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http://soberhouse.net

 

 

 

 

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Half way house

Half way house

Half way houses essentially are transitional living spaces for anyone who is in recovery from drugs and alcohol. You may also know half way houses as sober living or sober living houses, this is because in some states it is legally required that those terms be used. The people who go to half way houses usually go after they have been in drug treatment, prison, or have been homeless. Other people go to half way houses merely because they want to be in a sober environment to begin their recovery. There also some people who are court ordered to half way houses.

Half way houses can be private homes, apartments, or facilities specially built to provide support services to residents. Half way houses are not usually run down or scary. Depending on the location and type of half way house, they are fairly nice. Half way houses are usually decorated, come with all the furniture, amenities, kitchens, bathrooms, bedrooms that can hold one or two residents, pools, backyards and more. The half way house is not only a place for people to get sober but also a place for having fun sober and socializing.

For instance, in a half way house there are rules dealing with curfew, how many meetings a resident has to attend, whether or not a resident has to have a sponsor and during what times they can be in the house. Most half way houses are trying to help you get sober and also get your life back on track. So some half way houses have rules that say you must be out looking for a job, volunteering or working-if you aren’t doing those things than you can’t stay there. When it comes to curfew at a half way house it usually starts out fairly early and after a resident has been there for a while and successfully followed the rules, gets later. There are also chores that must be done daily and punishments for not doing them. The whole point of a half way house is to teach accountability, responsibility and sobriety. The strictness of the rules at a half way house varies from house to house.

More often than not half way houses require their future residents to pass a breathalyzer and a drug test. This is because if you were to have substances in your body, you may need the help of a medical facility for detox. The withdrawal symptoms from drugs can be very painful and sometimes fatal so it is best if future residents can’t pass a drug test or breathalyzer to go to a medical detox.     

Half way houses are quite frequently run by people who are also in recovery and were in a half way house at one point in their life. Half way houses usually are separated by gender. This means that most half way houses are either for only women or only men. The person who runs the half way house determines this. The person who runs the halfway house also determines some of the half way house rules.

A half way house merely is a residential place for those who need a safe place to transition back into the world again and to do it sober.

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Sober House Visitation Rules

Sober House Visitation Rules

Sober houses have many rules when it comes to just about everything in daily life and that includes what visitors and when. The reason sober houses have rules are because they are meant to give recovering addicts and alcoholics a safe, stable, and structured environment where they can slowly begin participating in society again. Sober houses are usually the transition from inpatient rehab to living independently or going back home. The length of time someone should stay in a sober house after inpatient rehab varies all on the individual circumstances. Here are some guidelines on sober house visitation rules and other rules/facts about sober houses.

  • Sober houses aren’t free

People who are living in a sober house are expected to pay rent, utility and to buy their own groceries. Paying for these things is actually a good thing because it helps build independence and accountability.

  • Sober houses are a community

Sober houses are all about community. In a sober house the individual shares the space and responsibilities with someone else who is going through the same thing they are. By doing this the recovering drug addict or alcoholic can gain self-esteem and accountability.

  • There is random drug testing at sober houses

In order to keep the sober house safe many require random drug testing. This keeps everyone living in the sober house safe and keeps them from relapsing.

And last but not least sober houses have visitation rules. Depending on how strict the sober house is, which can vary from house to house, the visitation rules can range from anyone can come to only family etc. Most sober house’s visitation rules are somewhere in the middle of safe but also understanding. Sober houses usually allow a maximum number of people to come visit the person living in the sober house. Visitation rules at the sober house also specify the time and days when visitations can occur. For instance a sober house may say that visitors are only allowed on Sundays from 3:30 to 6:30. Other sober houses my allow visitors whenever and then there are other sober houses that have visitation rules that require filling out a pass. For instance, if a resident of a sober house wanted to have visitors on any day they would need to fill out a request form and give it to the sober house manager or let the sober house manager know. From that point on the sober house manager would decide the specific set of rules for that resident and their visitors. Some visitation rules at some sober houses will require the visitors to check in at an office and require their ID. This is a precautionary measure to keep all the residents in the sober house safe. It is very easy for an addict or alcoholic who isn’t doing the right thing to lie and lies can be made about visitors and visitors could bring drugs or alcohol onto the property. The reason sober houses’ even have visitation rules to begin with is for this reason. Everything about a sober house including the visitation rules are meant to protect and ensure the sobriety of every residence living there.

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My roommate is eating my food. What do I do?

My roommate is eating my food. What do I do?

My roommate is eating my food. What do I do?

Living with a roommate, whether it is someone who is related to you, a friend, spouse, or total stranger inevitably will always lead to some kind of conflict at one point or another. It is normal! Setting healthy boundaries with your roommate can be one of the biggest steps you take towards making your living situation a positive on for both of you.

The most obvious thing to do when your roommate is eating your food is to have a conversation with them about it. Having a conversation with your roommate can be done politely. If they admit they have been eating the food or that maybe some of their guests are you can just very simply ask them to stop. If not, you may need to be more firm about your suspicions that they are eating your food and consider if there is any other possible way that your food could have gone missing. If your roommate gets offended that you asked her about it, stay relaxed and explain that you aren’t angry, you just wanted to stop it from happening again.

Another thing you can do is start clearly labeling your food or keeping it secure in your bedroom or in a personal refrigerator. This plan could be really helpful if talking to your roommate didn’t make a difference. You could also decide to only shop for food on the day that you are going to eat as a way of keeping your roommate from even having a way to get it. When you don’t have any food in the fridge there is no way for your roommate to eat it.

In a situation where your roommate is eating your food the best bet is sometimes to focus on preventing it rather than trying to stop it all together. It is sometimes a good idea before starting to live with someone to set up a roommate agreement. If you haven’t done this you could try doing it now. An agreement between your roommates sets up rules and expectations when it comes to things such as having people over, how to pay for utilities, and when it is okay to use each other’s stuff.

In a worst case scenario you may find that your roommate is not eating your food because they are inconsiderate but maybe because they have an eating disorder. If there is a chance your roommate could have an eating disorder you might want to talk to them privately about it and set up some protocol for how you can help. Make the concern about their health not the missing food if this is the case.

If none of these things help with your roommate stealing your food you might need to begin looking for another place to stay or another roommate you can live with that you are more comfortable around. If your food disappearing is really a big issue this may be something to think about especially because being able to trust your roommate is so important.

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Common excuses for leaving a sober house

leaving a sober house

Excuses for wanting to leave sober living

I’ve heard a lot of excuses for wanting to leave sober living over the past year and a half. Let’s face it, sober living kind of sucks sometimes. You have to abide by rules, you have to get along with your roommates, and you have to keep things clean. Break any rules, and you’re on early curfew. It’s like living with your parents again, except your halfway house manager isn’t so easy to manipulate.

However, sober living is really important. It provides structure and can be an essential interim step between treatment and the real world. It can also provide a sober support system which is crucial to early sobriety. A lot of times, when someone makes excuses for wanting to leave sober living, it means they are not ready to leave.

Excuses for wanting to leave sober living: Costs too much

This is one of the excuses for wanting to leave sober living that I hear the most often. Many sober living homes cost more than renting a room in an apartment or a house. Sober living residences have to pay employees to enforce rules, give drug tests, and monitor the people that live there. However, in my experience, there is always a way to pay for a sober house if you want to. Firstly, almost all sober living houses require you to have a job, and I’ve seen even people making minimum wage pay for sober living. Secondly, some sober living houses will let you pay on a sliding scale or are able to take health insurance. Finally, if you are living in a sober house, you usually qualify for some sort of federal financial aid. Always remember, your recovery comes first, so staying in sober living should be your highest financial priority.

Excuses for wanting to leave sober living: Rules are too strict

When someone gives me these excuses for wanting to leave sober living, I automatically think that they are probably not ready to leave. Sober living is about learning to live with others and acceptance of house rules. It may be hard to see sometimes, but the rules are there to serve you and keep you sober.  Usually, when someone complains about the rules, it means they are not doing what they should be doing and they are headed down a dangerous path.

Excuses for wanting to leave sober living: My roommates are relapsing

If your roommates are relapsing, you should tell your house manager. Relapsing residents put everyone else in danger. If your house manager does not do anything about it, and this is common in your sober living environment, you may want to find a new sober living environment. However, this is not an excuse to leave sober living all together. Also, keep in mind that in the real world, you will be around people that are using drugs and/or drinking at some point.  If you have a strong program of recovery, you can stay sober no matter what the people around you are doing.

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Sober House Rules

Sober House Rules

Sober House Rules

 

All sober houses have house rules. These are guidelines that the residents must abide by in order to remain a resident of the sober house. These house rules are usually pointed towards helping the residence stay sober and accountable.

Here are some samples of house rules:

  • As part of the house rules, I agree to drug and alcohol testing at least three times a week and at Random to be decided by house manager.
  • I agree to attend a minimum of 5 Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous meetings week.
  • I agree to keep my room as well as the common areas of the house neat and tidy. I will participate in shared household tasks on a rotating basis, which will be agreed upon during weekly house meeting.
  • I understand that the house is a non-smoking environment and agree to smoke only in the outdoor designated smoking area and use the cans provided for cigarette butts.
  • No men are allowed in the house at any time.
  • I will report any suspected alcohol or drug use to the house manager immediately.   
  • If I am using alcohol or other drugs, I will have to leave immediately and there will be no second chance or warning. My belongings must be removed from the house within 5 days of vacating the premises or the house will donate them to charity.

The samples of house rules give a guideline for those who are trying to manage life and stay sober for a long period of time. These sample house rules are merely just samples and each sober house has different rules depending on what kind of house they are.

For instance a women’s sober house will have a different set of house rules while a men’s sober house will have house rules more directed for them. Sometimes the sample house rules will change depending on the individual too. For instance, some women may be put on man ban and men put on a women ban. There are also instances where individuals may have earlier curfews then what is set by the house rules because of their current or past actions.

These sample rules are not the end all be all and sometimes if these rules are broken it won’t end up on the individual being asked to leave the house. The consequences may be certain chore duties, earlier curfew etc.

Either way, from looking at these sample house rules you can see how a sober house works for the individual not against them. Some sober houses are stricter with their rules and some are looser but the truth is that rules such as the sample house rules above are set in place for a reason. Following guidelines such as the sample house rules above will guarantee a more successful road ahead for the addict and alcoholic trying to sober. It will also help the addict and alcoholic trying to recover to be more successful at life not just sobriety that’s why rules such as the sample house rules above are so imperative and what makes a sober house.

 

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Sober House Curfew

 

Sober House Curfew

Sober House Curfew

 

Sober houses can be an integral step in recovery after receiving treatment at a residential drug and alcohol recovery center. Sober houses provide an interim step between a highly structured treatment environment and a person in recovery living on his or her own. Better outcomes are shown for those individuals who participate in this gradual phasing process: more remain sober, and those that remain sober do so for a longer period in time.

A sober house provides structure for the recovering alcoholic or drug addict. Most sober houses have a set of rules that must be followed in order for individuals to remain in residence. For instance, a sober house promotes recovery by requiring residents to attend 12-step meetings, submit to random drug and alcohol screening, and become an active participant in his or her recovery from addiction. In addition, sober house curfews are enforced. Residents are expected to be home at a certain time and the sober house manager will perform bed checks to ensure that all residents are home at the expected time.

The sober house curfew is usually dependent on the amount of time you have been in a sober house, and if you are fulfilling your obligations as a resident of a sober house. The sober house curfew for someone who has just moved in is generally earlier than for those who have been in residence longer. In addition, the sober house curfew is usually later for those who have a job or are going to school. Oftentimes, house managers will use the sober house curfew as a punishment when someone violates another sober house rule. For example, if you fail to do your chores or don’t come home on time, you will be put on early curfew for a period of time.

Besides the sober house curfew, there are usually other certain house rules you must follow in a sober house. Often, sober houses prohibit certain items (i.e. drugs, alcohol, weapons) or behaviors (i.e. residents are not allowed to spend time in bars or hookah lounges); require a resident to be involved in school, work, or outpatient treatment; and do not allow overnight guests. The punishment for breaking rules can range from early curfew or financial penalty to expulsion from the sober house, depending on the offense. This structure can be essential for long term sobriety.

The benefits of living in a sober house in early recovery can be invaluable. Sober houses provide a safe, drug-free environment for those new in recovery. Living in a sober house with other people in recovery allows you to make friends with people who have the same goals and issues as yourself. Your housemates provide you with support and understanding, which is crucial to success in recovery.

Sober houses also provide accountability. Residents are less likely to end up in situations that may lead to relapse because of the strict enforcement of rules. Many people find that returning home or to living on their own after inpatient treatment can be very dangerous. It is easy to slip back into behaviors and habits that they practiced while using or drinking. This can be a step down the road to relapse for many addicts and alcoholics. Sober houses provide an easier transition between inpatient treatment and independent living.

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Rules in A Sober House

 

Most sober houses have a few basic rules in order to create structure for each individual’s needs in their sober living. These rules are in place to help the addict or alcoholic looking to recover to have the best possible chance of becoming a functioning member of society again. Rule number one is to stay clean and pass your drug test, rule number two is to get home before your set curfew and the last rule is to complete all chores and respect others and their property.

The first and main rule in a sober house is you must stay clean and pass your drug tests. This is essential because the whole point of a sober house is to help you stay sober and to keep the other individuals in the sober house safe from harm due to using by themselves or others. Along with this rule most sober houses have a relapse protocol or relapse policy if you cannot or do not pass a drug test and end up relapsing. This policy or protocol makes sure each person gets treated the same when they relapse. This relapse policy usually consists of a time limit in which the person must leave the sober house.

The second rule in a sober house that is essential to a person’s accountability and recovery is the curfew. Most sober houses have a certain time period in which individuals must be out of the house looking for employment or volunteering along with a certain time they must be home depending on how long they have been a residence at the sober house. Most curfews begin somewhat early the first 30 days you are there, around 10pm and after 30 days can be as late as 11pm or 12am on weekdays and 1am on weekends. The later curfew is a reward for following all the other rules in a sober house. Non-compliance with the early curfew or the other rules in a sober house can result in an earlier curfew or the inability to get a later curfew. Punishment for being late on curfew can be getting your curfew at 11pm pushed back to 8pm, if it happens more than once then it can result in being asked to leave the sober house.

The third rule in a sober house has to do with chores, cleanliness and getting along with others. The rules in a sober house consist of doing daily or weekly chores along with following the basic guidelines of not touching other people’s things. The failure to do your chores can result on early curfew and if persisting it can result in being asked to leave the sober house. These chores are fairly simple and consist of the members of the sober house working together to keep their living space clean and hygienic.

These Sober House rules help each individual to become accountable, reliable, helpful and active members of their sober house and community.

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